mostly in bed
Most of my life is spent in bed. I prefer it that way. I feel I am just a soft and tender creature. When I was out in the office if I could not be horizontal, I would feel wiped the fuck out. I would find the meditation room, bring a blanket/pillow and lay on the ground in my cubical too. I know unconventional behavior but it really improves my productivity.
This weekend I went to BC with my platonic life partner. I ate a bunch of yummy food, and it was delicious AF. I love immigrants and food. I went and had dim sum at Dinesty in Richmond, had mango mochi from Rice Holic (very disappointing the mango had no flavor and was just wet fiber), and then went to 2 speakeasies in Chinatown. The cocktails were great but were very much giving hipster pretentious vibes. They also had a rule where you could not use phones, and I liked that. After all the drinking we were going to a house/EDM joint. However, I found a bunch of baby le$beans. I was like where ya going? Is it a lesbian club? They said yes, and I was like BET. Everything was impeccable, the even had I feel like 10 velvet very sexy chaise lounges/couches. I LOVED that. They know ppl need to chill out. Comfortable and aesthetically pleasing furniture is essential to the experience. I am all about vibes and experiences. If my gut has any inklings or I get vibes I will Irish goodbye the fuck out of there.
The following day we had brunch at Medina, it was delicious. We went to Granville Island, went to a book shop. I got a book on tarot and 2 literary magazines. The art was gorgeous, and I am trying to get into more literary journals so I don’t feel constrained by the novel format. Reading truly brings me joy. Reading uses a different part of my brain, and is very calming. Reading on my phone, listening to podcasts/audiobooks are not the same, or as effective as my brain when reading. Hence, the novel format is not always the most compatible with me because of my ADHD brain.
Only downside of this weekend is no sexy fun time (boo boo not a fan). Good thing I am going to have a 3sum this afternoon. I had a thing last year where one of my partners, and me would have 3sum Mondays. I like watching people fuck, and tbh it’s like porn in real life. I haven’t ever been with a femme 1-on-1, but that’s my goal. Glad I am bringing 3sum Mondays. Will report later tonight.